Dear Parents/Guardians,
Parents are the most powerful and primary source of values and knowledge for their children. However, many of us struggle to equip our children to explore and develop their independence in a social context where they may encounter sexist banter, sexting, revenge porn, sexual bullying and a rising number of sexual assaults.
The Active*Consent programme, based in the School of Psychology in NUI Galway, has been working for over 10 years with young people aged between 15 and 24 years, educators and parents to develop important resources to support our children. All these resources are based on Irish data, and we work alongside young people to ensure that our workshops and other resources are engaging, relevant and effective in raising awareness, sharing knowledge and skills.
We have been providing workshops to first year college students since 2016, reaching almost 17,000 students with our online workshop in 2020. In March 2020, we piloted our workshop for secondary school students responding to the demands from parents, young people and teachers for the reform of the RSE programme and the need to educate our children about sexual consent. Well-taught RSE gives essential tools for life, strengthening young people’s ability to make conscious, satisfying, healthy and respectful choices within their relationships and to stay safe both on and offline. Plus, when young people are healthy and happy, feel safe, and secure in school they do better.
Talking about sex and relationships does not encourage young people to go out and have sex. On the contrary consent skills are essential when it comes to intimate interactions where the consequences of getting it wrong is the difference between sharing a positive intimate experience and having an abusive experience. We need conversations about consent to become as ordinary as putting on a seat belt.
Our work is funded with the philanthropic backing of Lifes2 Good Foundation and RETHINK Ireland.
Ballymakenny College are facilitating Active Consent workshops for 5th year students on Tuesday May 9th. We hope that you will encourage your child to attend and that this will open up healthy, informative conversations in school, amongst their peers and in the home.
If you do not want your daughter or son to attend this workshop please contact trishoreilly@ballymakennycollege.ie or call the school 041 9802459.